Planning a wedding event at home? Incorporate Days of Eid into your decor to transform your space
The era of Covid has changed the way we approach so many things, and weddings are not exempt from this phenomenon. There will be more than 2.5 million weddings in 2022, the most in a year since 1984. With the rise of micro weddings, and more and more couples choosing to host at home, we are finding creative ways to make wedding events special on our own. Days of Eid products can help you add that extra touch to your wedding events, especially if you are looking for details that incorporate your heritage and traditions.
For your own twist on trendy gold art frames use our Door Wreath as an arch shaped backdrop for a cake, dessert table, or even buffet table. The mihrab shape fits right in with other cultural elements, especially at a henna or mehendi party. Placing the Door Decor on your mantle makes a great focal point at an engagement or kitab party in your living room.
Adding lettering on a piece of glass or mirror behind the wreath would make a super unique entrance sign as well. Designed to look like Islamic architecture, it's a minimal way to transport your guests to another place. We especially love how our Door Decor looks with carved wooden room dividers that are often used as backdrops.
Lanterns have always been a party staple, and our authentic Moroccan patterned lanterns are a step-up from the basic rustic ones that everyone else has. With intricate Islamic Art details that make an impact, spacing these lanterns out around your home or backyard can turn your everyday spaces into a venue.
You can't go wrong adding a warm glow and sparkle along an aisle or staircase. The three different sizes are perfect for creating dimension on a stage or foot of a sweetheart table.
For great table centerpieces, fill our Moroccan Floor Lanterns with flowers like baby's breath. Or use our Mini Lanterns along a table runner for rectangular set-ups. This helps create the right atmosphere for backyard picnic style events. To tie it all together, hang our Lantern String Lights on your dessert table backdrops.
Ever versatile, the bright pinks and purples and luxe greens and blues also match with the traditional bright colors of a pre wedding dholki/henna. It's an easy way to make DIY home set ups look super put together!
Everyone gets hype for a well set up dessert table! Some special serveware like our Marrakech Acrylic Trays can add color and authentic patterns to the set up. The classic Moon and Star Platter is a unique shape to arrange desserts on, especially if you're going for traditional desserts.
Covering your home with sparkling lights is a wedding tradition for many cultures, even when not hosting events. Our Moon and Star String lights can cover a large area, for example a staircase or a large wall, or even over backyard seating.
Consider switching out the commonly used fairy lights of wedding light curtain backdrops with our Moon & Star Lights for a more celestial look. Or hang our Lantern String Lights from the ceiling, staggered through the hall to go for a more immersive look.
For more inspo check out our #DaysofEidStyle Wedding Pinterest board! Remember to share your beautiful creations by tagging us at @DaysofEid!
Don't leave it to the last minute, and check out some of our picks for where to find cards for this Eid.
Whether it's through sharing food, giving gifts, or just catching up at the Masjid, Eid has always been about community. A great way to make your loved ones feel special, especially if they're far away, is to send them a special greeting card. And it's a great opportunity to try and support some Muslim small businesses! Don't leave it to the last minute, and check out some of our picks for where to find cards for this Eid.
With embossing, cutouts, and 3 dimensional effects, these handmade cards really show the recipient the care and thought you put into it.
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Looking for something modern, colorful, and on trend. Clrsoul's groovy collection is as bright as it gets. Akela also has eye-catching designs with a more Urdu script feel. Madeafterhours block printed pack of cards is perfect for the art lover in your life.
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HudhudCreations' cards feature cute characters and punny taglines that will delight anyone you give them too.
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For a more formal look, check out IslamicMoments. Simple designs with beautiful calligraphy that you can fill with everything you want to say to your loved ones on this blessed holiday.
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Running short on time and can't wait for shipping? We've all been there the day before Eid. The solution is downloading a card and printing it yourself. Shevisionsstudio has some great terracotta calligraphy cards as well. Also check out Joy Within for some free greeting cards.
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However you choose to share the holiday, we hope you have a wonderful one! Don't forget to tag us in all your decor @DaysofEid.
Ramadan has much more to it than the physical fast. It is also a time of self-care:
rejuvenation, healing, and growth. As Muslims, we have a duty to take care of our physical and mental health by taking time to reflect and purify our hearts
Ramadan has much more to it than the physical fast. It is also a time of self-care: rejuvenation, healing, and growth. As Muslims, we have a duty to take care of our physical and mental health by taking time to reflect and purify our hearts (tazkiyah).
Abu Dharr RA reported that Muhammad SAW said: “Verily, your own self has rights over you, so fast and break your fast, pray and sleep.”
There are countless ways that Islam teaches us to show kindness and respect to ourselves, as we are His creation and in respecting His creation, we also respect Him. Here are some ways to establish truly beneficial self-care habits this Ramadan and throughout the year.
DETOX YOUR MIND
Ramadan is a great time to clear out the parts of your day that are not beneficial. Try unfollowing the social media accounts that make you feel insecure. As you clear out harmful comparisons, try learning from the lives of the prophets and companions (sahaba
). Read about the trials they overcame and set up more positive role models that will bring you closer to Allah SWT.
TEN MINUTES OF REFLECTION EVERY DAY
Take ten minutes everyday to sit in silence. With no distractions, you can allow your mind to rest. Use this time to do dhikr, breathing exercises, or simply reflect. You can do this right after fajr or when the kids fall asleep. But reserving this time just for you and Allah (swt) will certainly put more blessings (barakah) in your day.
Abu Huraira reported that Muhammad SAW said: “Take up good deeds only as much as you are able, for the best deeds are those done regularly even if they are few.”
SMALL ACTS OF IBADAH
On some days, you might feel burdened by house chores. I get it, they can be tedious and repetitive. But try replacing the thought “I hate cleaning the house” with “I take care of my family for the sake of Allah SWT”. Setting the right intention while doing your daily tasks is a great way to keep your presence of mind during this month .
LET GO OF GRUDGES
People of paradise go to sleep with a clean heart. It is easier said than done, but working on your temper is a beautiful habit to build. By walking away when you feel your temper is rising and breathing through your emotions, you will learn how to live a more peaceful and resilient life.
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger."
We’re always looking for ways to improve ourselves and learn more. There's a lot of value in podcasts. What better way to enrich your mind as you drive to work or do chores around the house? Plus, they’re free! Below is your ultimate guide to 5 different podcasts that you can enjoy, especially in Ramadan!
We’re always looking for ways to improve ourselves and learn more. There's a lot of value in podcasts. What better way to enrich your mind as you drive to work or do chores around the house? Plus, they’re free! Below is your ultimate guide to 5 different podcasts that you can enjoy, especially in Ramadan!
For any Muslim women who are using the month of Ramadan to be the best version of themselves, Mindful Muslimah Speaks is a great podcast to listen to. The host talks about real struggles along with useful (and practical) advice for daily habits, organization, and motivation. Her advice is just as realistic as it is effective.
Check out Mindful Muslimah Speaks here.
In a whopping 199 episodes of this series, Shaykh Abdul Nadir Jangda goes in depth into the life of Prophet Muhammad (SAW.) The notable thing about this series is that his approach is more like a narrative than a timeline of events. In this way, he truly gets you to understand not only the Prophet’s actions and words, but also his humanity and emotion.
Check out Shaykh Abdul Nadir Jangda’s seerah here. Get a notepad and pen ready!
The Digital Sisterhood is a dynamic podcast centered around interviews and storytelling. Guests get vulnerable and honest about their personal journeys of growth and development. Ranging from topics like love and Dua to grief and death, it leaves you feeling motivated to find more meaning in your life.
Check out The Digital Sisterhood here.
There are three whole seasons of episodes to listen to at Honest Tea Talk! Three Muslim women come together for truly insightful and honest conversations about topics like family, trauma, and personal growth. It’s also a way to find a sense of community during Ramadan!
Check out Honest Tea Talk here.
Yaqeen Podcast, from the Yaqeen Institute for Islamic Research, is a great resource to learn more about Islam. As we approach Ramadan, you can learn about topics like: the benefits of praying Tahajjud, Islamic history, and the meaning of each juz' of the Qur’an.
Check out Yaqeen Podcast here.
If there's anything we need more of, it's ways to keep kids occupied during long fasts that also allow them to get into the Ramadan spirit. Try these paper lanterns for a fun way to do both!
If there's anything we need more of, it's ways to keep kids occupied during long fasts that also allow them to get into the Ramadan spirit. I've seen variations of paper lanterns, like these cute Stockholm lanterns, and thought a Ramadan twist on them would light up kids' imaginations, especially ages 7 and up.
For a letter sized piece of paper, the best fit is a 3 inch candle. We found that vellum paper is the best option, as it's transparent but still sturdy enough to stand on its own.
If you don't want to come up with your own design, we have a great Ramadan city skyline template that you can print and use as a basis for your lantern. We love how the houses and masjids allude to that sense of community that is so strong in this month, and could be used as a way to introduce you child to concepts like the function of masjids in our faith.
Depending on your child's age and skill level, you can trace just the simple outline or every star and window. Once you're done you can add more custom details or color parts in.
Maybe even poke holes for stars or cut out windows so that they shine brighter.
When you're done, you can use these lanterns as nightlights, or decorations for a cozy iftar. Don't forget to tag us if you get a chance to try this out @daysofeid on instagram!
There are so many options for Islam inspired prints that you can buy framed, or to download digitally and print to your own dimensions. Like every other detail in your home, the art you chose can say a lot about you. Celebrate your culture and who you are with these great prints.
Empty walls are no fun! An inexpensive and easy way to refresh your home is by adding interesting wall decor that inspires you. Back in the day, there weren't many ways to display your culture throughout your home besides bringing something from the homeland. Now, there are so many options for Islam inspired prints that you can buy framed, or to download digitally and print to your own dimensions. Like every other detail in your home, the art you choose can say a lot about you. Celebrate your culture and who you are with these great prints.
Art doesn't have to take over your space. If you've been really into white interiors and neutral color palettes, look into minimal pieces from SheVisionsStudio to brighten your home. Other shops to check out for the look are SimpleLineDraw , QUOTEx, and JasminePrintArt.
For the fans of color and patterns, you can't miss MimarSinanStudio. Their designs are bold and intricate enough to bring something interesting to any room. For a more modern take, look into ErumKhalili's beautiful architectural drawings that feature a sun motif. This drawing of Madina's cityscape is also a great option.
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Want a more antique and classic vibe? Historic maps can be super meaningful when they are of significant places, culturally or personally. A great example is this map of Palestine print from PaliRoots. Salam Sanctuary combines islamic patterns and calligraphy with gorgeous maps. Alternatively, you can look into vintage pictures from these same places or even architectural sketches. These calligraphic prints of Surah Al Isra look almost like something you would find in a museum. Or check out Art of Islamic Illumination for gilded islamic patterns for your space.
There are so many options, and so many ways to decorate, but make sure you're staying true to you! For more wall inspo, check out this Pinterest board and follow us @DaysofEid.
The perfect coffee table book is bold, aesthetically pleasing, and about something that you're passionate about.
The best place in your home to use your decor to show your identity is in your living room — specifically on your coffee table. The perfect coffee table book is bold, aesthetically pleasing, and about something that you're passionate about. It’s what your guests see in front of them while they’re visiting, and the an ideal conversation starter. Here are some great one's to look into for the Muslim home!
This collection of photos and essays explores masjids all over the world. With striking photography of islamic art and architecture, it gives you a glimpse of how islamic motifs evolved over time and place. It's gold embossed cover makes it a great neutral detail for any living room, while also being a joy to flip through.
Retracing the steps of the prophet during the Hijrah, this extensively researched book gives a new appreciation for this moment of our history. This book is written in both Arabic and English, and contains gorgeous pictures and maps that help you reflect on the life of the Prophet PBUH.
A bold cover, high quality images, and an expanse of information make this the perfect conversation piece for your coffee table. Using examples from the museum's collection, it goes through the major styles of calligraphy, historical tools, and different mediums.
What's on your coffee table? Show us how you decorate with intention by tagging us on instagram @daysofeid!.
Looking for some new ideas for your home? These fall trends are something to look into.
This fall it’s all about textures! Whether it’s effortless plaster or fluffy couches there is something for everyone. With shorter days and more time at home, 'tis the season to make your home a place you won’t get sick of.
The handmade and unfinished look is in! Raised plaster textures are showing up on coffee tables and minimal wall art. This works as great way to add to your space without interrupting its color palette. It's also something that you can easily DIY and customize to your taste.
On a smaller scale, irregular vases and tableware can have a similar effect. Just like wavy mirrors, these sculptural pieces add something interesting for the eye. Modern and different, these pieces look best paired with patterned pieces like checkered rugs and our Marrakech Acrylic Trays. If you're willing to invest in some timeless pieces, handmade ceramics are the way to go. They won't go out of style and you would be supporting small businesses in the process.
Maybe an effect of the DIY baking soda paint hack from last year, stone vases are here to stay. The most recently trending pieces are earthenware weathered vases, especially with long abstract branch arrangements. While we still love a great pampas branch, consider changing it up this fall with some foraged foliage from outside, or even some dried eucalyptus. To go with the weathered look, look for rustic wooden pieces and linen details.
Talk about warm vibes, these fluffy wool pieces are everywhere. Boucle couches, chairs, and even ottomans are super popular right now.
To get the same effect without shelling out the coin for an chair or couch, look for some boucle pillows and throws to add to your living room. You can never have too many cozy furniture pieces for fall, and throw pillows are a great way to change it up without committing.
Vertical lines are popping up in many forms. This started out with fluted glassware, commonly seen in Nordic hygge style rooms. Wooden wall panelling is a more natural Japanese style take on this visual element. Adding wooden dowels to furniture and walls is a DIY challenge you might consider taking on. Or grab a pleated lampshade to try the style out in your space.
Last year, Rattan furniture was everywhere. Wicker basket walls and woven elements were all over our feeds. This continues with cane chairs and cabinets. It's a more subtle way to bring natural textures into a modern space. Mid century modern pieces like the cesca chair or these black lounge chairs are one way to incorporate this vibe your home.
For more ideas on how to decorate your space, check out our Fall Trends Pinterest board, and follow us on instagram @DaysofEid!
Summer vacation is over and the hustle and bustle of the school year is upon us. Why not ditch the stove entirely and focus on preparing meals that need zero cooking. Here are five easy recipes that will keep you and your kids satisfied.
Summer vacation is over and the hustle and bustle of the school year is upon us. Why not ditch the stove entirely and focus on preparing meals that need zero cooking. Here are five easy recipes that will keep you and your kids satisfied.
Give your children a vitamin boost at breakfast with this fun smoothie recipe. All you have to do is pop in a few frozen fruits and blend together with milk. After, decorate their kiddie glass with an edible happy face made out of pineapple and berries.
Recipe: Sunshine Smoothie
If you need a healthy-ish snack for your children, this pool dip is perfect for a hot summer day--whether you have a pool or not. It’s full of protein because of the yogurt used to make it and it’s mixed with a frozen whipped topping for extra sweetness. Pair it with a fruit bowl and a few graham crackers so your kids can enjoy this cool and wholesome treat.
Recipe: Poolside Dip
When you need a quick, convenient breakfast for your kids, then you might want to give this overnight blueberry cobbler oatmeal a try. This recipe combines oats, brown sugar and fresh blueberries together, and leaves it to chill in the fridge overnight. It is then served cold with a drizzle of honey and a pecan topping.
Recipe: Overnight Blueberry Cobbler Oatmeal
Popsicles are the quintessential summer treats beloved by most kids. Instead of buying sugary ones from the supermarket, why not make your own healthy rainbow popsicles at home. Each popsicle has seven colorful layers filled with blended fruits for an eye-catching, refreshing snack your kids will enjoy.
Recipe: Rainbow Popsicles
Who says you can’t have your date and eat it too? This recipe turns dates into a decadent easy-to-make snack that can be eaten by your kids anytime of day. All you have to do is combine dates with ingredients such as tahini, almond butter, walnuts and cream cheese to create a sweet, healthy snack that is guaranteed to have your kids craving for more.
Recipe: Stuffed Dates 5 Ways
A cheesy quesadilla makes a great dinner on a warm summer night. This quesadilla recipe uses pantry staples such as chicken, beans, and bell peppers to make an ooey-gooey sandwich your children will be delighted by. Although you may have to cook the chicken ahead of time, it’s still good for those nights your family is craving something quick and delicious to eat.
Recipe: Loaded Quesadillas
Not many kids will refuse this creamy guacamole dip — especially if it's served alongside nachos and salsa as part of a healthy lunch. Avocados are rich in monounsaturated fats and fibre. And just one serving of guacamole gives your children a healthy dose of these essential nutrients that they need to grow.
Recipe: Guacamole
It’s already Dhul Hijjah! It feels like Eid Al Adha always sneaks up on us and we aren't as fully prepared for it as we are for Eid Al Fitr. We got you covered for ways to get your kid’s involved during this special time.
It’s already Dhul Hijjah! It feels like Eid Al Adha always sneaks up on us and we aren't as fully prepared for it as we are for Eid Al Fitr. We got you covered for ways to get your kid’s involved during this special time.
Explaining exactly what Hajj is to children can be hard sometimes. We need to remember to keep it simple for them, but we also want to make sure they are understanding Hajj from a religious point of view.
Going to Mecca, a children's book that follows Muslims through Hajj is a good way to explain . The colorful pages and illustrations give their imagination a look into Mecca and all things related to Hajj.
Another idea is to make stations that represent the different steps of Hajj and walk your children through them. Sometimes the best way to learn is by doing.
With this activity pack from Days of Eid you can have a fun project to do with your children everyday from the start of Dhul Hijjah to Eid, helping build their excitement for our special day of celebration! One of the activities teaches children to give Sadaqa by making their own Kaabah box. When making their own Thikr beads they learn the way we are supposed to praise Allah.
We designed these custom instructions for a model of the Kaabah that you can build out of Legos. It keeps your kids occupied as you take advantage of the blessings of these ten days, while also helping them learn about the significance of the Kaabah itself. You might even discuss how the Kaabah was first built by Prophet Ibrahim AS , and then rebuilt during the time of the Prophet Muhammad PBUH and what lessons you can learn from those stories.
Islamic Relief USA also has several easy to download activities for kids. What I specifically liked was the wide variety of activities they had for all age groups. Whether you have toddlers who just want to color or school aged kids who love a good word search you’ll find them here. I think my favorite activity was Hajj map. It is simple, but it helps give our children a better perspective of what Hajj looks like visually.
We can’t wait to see what you try! Remember to share your pictures with us by tagging us on instagram @daysofeid, Insha’Allah a blessed Dhul Hijjah for everyone.
Eid al Adha is about more than just slaughtering sheep, or remembering the sacrificial components of our holiday. It’s also about the importance of having tawakkul in the Master Plan of Allah (SWT).
Sub7anAllah, in just a couple of weeks Eid al Adha will arrive, and our families get to ride the high of summer celebrations! My kids are already excited enough that there’s another Eid happening so soon, that they may find it hard to understand the particular significance of Eid al Adha. Having been raised with an awareness of the story of Prophet Ibrahim (AS) and its correlation with this Eid of Sacrifice, I wanted to be sure my own children know the story, and they’re able to extract from it lessons for today’s world.
No parent in the world, I think, can even begin to understand the level of trust in Allah (SWT) required to consider sacrificing your own child – for a higher purpose or otherwise. Tawakkul, or trusting in Allah (SWT), is an important part of our faith. We always trust in Him and His plan for us, and try to accept whatever comes our way.
But the Prophet Ibrahim had so much tawakkul in Allah (SWT) and His plan, that he proceeded with the intention to sacrifice his own son, Ismail, at the request of Allah (SWT). But what Prophet Ibrahim did not know at the time, was that Allah (SWT) was testing his faith. Prophet Ibrahim did not question what he saw in his dream; and Ismail did not question his father’s prophetic dream, agreeing to whatever Allah (SWT) willed. By intending to follow through with Allah’s (SWT) request, whether or not it went against all natural inclinations, Ibrahim as well as his son Ismail both demonstrated strong and unwavering tawakkul.
As we all know, Allah (SWT) ultimately saved Ismail at the top of Mount Arafat by replacing him with a lamb, which is where our Eid sacrifice tradition stems from.
So what do we take from this story? We, who are so far removed from the prophetic world. Here in our modern world, where miracles are subtle and often questioned. How do we enact this level of deep faith in our Creator? How can we mimic even an aorta of the faith that Prophet Ibrahim had in Rabna (SWT), especially in our day to day? You’re looking for a new job, how do you keep faith? Waiting on results after a health scare, how do you keep faith? Struggling with something you think you just can’t handle, how do you keep faith?
Eid al Adha is about more than just slaughtering sheep, or remembering the sacrificial components of our holiday. It’s also about the importance of having tawakkul in the Master Plan of Allah (SWT). It’s about family, and having so much love for your family that you trust them for the love of Allah (SWT). This Eid al Adha, let’s vow to strengthen our trust in the Most High and our relationships with our families.
All over the gram, we saw beautiful interpretations of our Days of Eid decor. We received so many submissions to our website of proud displays! And we are so excited to share a few favorites.
This past Ramadan was finally one full of socialization, alhamdulillah! Enjoying celebrations is always better when you can include your loved ones. Many rushed to secure their Ramadan and Eid decorations to bring back that holiday spirit. All over the gram, we saw beautiful interpretations of our Days of Eid decor. We received so many submissions to our website of proud displays! And we are so excited to share a few favorites.
“Completely obsessed with our Ramadan advent calendar! Menaal looks forward to opening up a drawer every night before bed!” - @samreenk
1. You already know, we love minimal design at Days of Eid. Samreen used the color palette of our dreams to create a luxurious arrangement. And look at the Days of Eid Countdown Calendar on display in such a glamorous way!
“Ramadan Mubarak! As a Muslim American parent we strive to make Ramadan extra special for our children to instill the love and excitement of this holy month in their hearts. Days of Eid decor has made decorating for Ramadan enjoyable for our family! Thank you Days of Eid! - Sajjni
2. Depth, texture, color! This one is so beautiful and fun. Sajjni did such a wonderful job complementing the colors of our Days of Eid lanterns with the greenery and rustic furniture. How creative to use a tiered tray to showcase fun little Ramadan-themed decor trinkets.
3. Imagine the wonderfully festive feel of having an immersive room that surrounds you with all of the celebration of Ramadan and Eid. The balloon arch and floral touches in @californiakistan's home add a softness that compliments the floral details on the our Moon and Star Platter!
4. We say, there can never be too many signs! Look at this resourceful way in which @Sarasheikh2567 used the extra signage that comes with our Days of Eid Door Decor. Just look at that beautiful, simple crescent moon mirror playing off the gorgeous calligraphic art.
"We loved using our decorated Ramadan corner for peaceful iftars and salat with our 3-year-old, starting our Ramadan traditions and building a culture for years to come iA! " -@heidelbirdie
5. The use of our pennant and garland pack so creative! How it establishes a stylish focal point on the mantle. The simple addition of the cozy reading table is a great way to make your kids connect their Countdown Calendar to the lessons they learn in their Ramadan books!
6. We love this celestial entry table by Rabiasungur. Using risers to get your lanterns to different heights is a great way to add dimension. The way the center piece is placed makes it feel like the stars burst through to the sky. And let’s not forget the greenery that grounds the whole look!
For more of our favorite looks, check out the Features highlight on our Instagram!
Already planning your Eid Table or want to make your last Iftar gatherings extra special? Check out today's blogpost with tips on how to make the perfect holiday table.
There’s a spiritual beauty that comes with making your guests feel appreciated and inspired — especially now in the midst of Ramadan, and with Eid around the corner! After all, community and caring for one another are at the core of Islam. Whether for Iftars, Suhoors, or upcoming all-day Eid feasts with family or friends, check out some of our ideas for styling your table:
One of the easiest ways to add noticeable flair to your Ramadan spread is to add a stylish table runner. The runner elongates your table while adding warmth, texture and color. Thankfully table runners come in varied shapes, lengths, and styles – make it your own! For example, you can choose a runner that folds or scrunches for added texture, or lay one flat for a crisp, clean look.
Or fold our tablecloth for an easy runner with a mosaic pattern.
We love pieces that can be recycled and reused yearly, so long as you innovate and keep things fresh. Find a lovely arrangement of plants and/or flowers that you’ll continue to enjoy and reuse year after year; something timeless. For example, many of us have dried flower bouquets that have been around for years, or succulents or other easy-to-maintain greenery. Consider high quality faux plants, too!
For a fresh look, choose simple florals with long stems to add elegance without overcrowding the presentation. Remember: less is more.
If you haven’t tried using pampas in your decor this year, we highly recommend incorporating them into your table! They’re sure to be a simple, beautiful addition to any classy table. They project a natural and rustic feel while remaining formal and tasteful.
Be sure to pick up some twine and burlap to use as well. Perhaps burlap place mats, and twine to tie your dinner napkins. The simple textures and natural lines warmly lend themselves to your cozy arrangement, without doing too much work!
Every beautiful table needs its center, its star; a focal point. Our Moroccan mini lanterns add a soft glow to your table, to create a Ramadan vibe with very little effort. Use different sizes for depth and dimension! Here’s another cute and simple addition to any table: place printed (or hand-written) cards with the Iftar dua’a or with a spiritual reminder.
Don’t forget our famous Moon & Star platter for the perfect centerpiece! Fill it with dates, nuts, and dried fruits – even dried flowers! This Ramadan, experiment and let your creativity run wild!
I know we love color, but simplicity is key with your Ramadan table scape. Try to be as monochrome as possible with your color coordination. The easiest way to make sure not too much is going on is to keep all of your choices within shades of the same color. For example, the spectrum from off-white to gold is always an elegant eye-catcher!
We can’t wait to see your Iftar tables this Ramadan! Remember to share your beautiful creations by tagging us at @DaysofEid!
For some people, due to illness or other factors, participating in Ramadan fasts isn't an option. Heba Subeh author of Maymunah's Musings offers some wisdom about the guilt that comes with not being able to fast.
It has been a good three years since I’ve last fasted Ramadan. Now I know what you’re thinking: GASP! THAT’S HARAM! Why would she do that?! Sit back, and let me explain.
I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in November of 2016. An incurable autoimmune disease that can oftentimes be debilitating, MS prevents me from fasting due to the toll it would take on my body and mind. No two people with this illness are alike. Some are thriving, and are still able to fast the entire month of Ramadan, and some just can’t. I’m in the latter category.
The first year I fasted having this disease, I was in bed almost every single day. MS causes a considerable amount of fatigue to a person, whether or not they are fasting. We can only exert 30% of the energy of the average person. If the body is deprived of its daily nutrients and proper hydration, this fatigue intensifies, and renders one useless.
I was unable to read Quran, I could barely leave my bed to perform my daily prayers, and the difficulty that I experienced trying to spend quality time with my family, to make iftar, and to remember Allah together in our ibadah, was unreal. My brain was foggy, and my concentration was off. The mundane daily tasks seemed impossible to attain.
I had spent thirty plus years of my life fasting every Ramadan, except for the years I was pregnant or nursing, which I made up for later, of course. When I realized that I could not fast any longer because of my MS, it was one of the hardest things I had to come to terms with. I consulted with doctors, Islamic scholars, and my family and friends to try to come up with ways to continue to fast when all directions pointed to not fasting. It was a glaring and painful realization, and one that filled me with tremendous guilt. How could I, a committed, practicing Muslimah, not perform one of the most fundamental pillars of Islam that had set a strong foundation in my faith? What kind of example was I setting for my daughters?
The sense of camaraderie in joining the millions of fasting Muslims around the world was suddenly and painfully snatched away. I struggled for some time, and to be quite honest, I still do to this day, although the guilt is not as deeply felt as it was three years ago.
In the midst of my internal conflict, and after many prayers of istikhara and much dua, I came across some discoveries that put my heart and soul at ease. At that point, I knew Allah, subhanahu wa ta’ala, was guiding me and calming the angst within me. While many Muslims consider Ramadan to be the month of “fasting,” it is known throughout the Quran and Sunnah as the month of many virtues. To me, Ramadan transformed from the “month of fasting” to the “month of the Quran,” “month of mercy,” “month of charity,” “month of duas and thikr,” “month of pardon and forgiveness,” and the “month of Salah.” This transformation helped me focus on what I could do in Ramadan instead of what I couldn’t do.
With this shift in focus, I increased my Quran reading and prayers. I began to look for various avenues in which I could give charity, and my escalation of thikr and istighfar shot up to a level I had never before achieved. All of this highlighted Allah’s infinite mercy in my life. I learned that if Allah, the Creator Himself, was so merciful in allowing me this exemption from fasting, why couldn’t I be a bit more compassionate and forgiving to myself? My illness and inability to fast because of it were due to Allah’s will and Qadr. He knows best why this was my lifelong path, and in hindsight, I am starting to recognize these blessings.
So to those struggling with the guilt of no longer being able to fast the month of Ramadan, know that Allah has designed a different path for you to take, one that is full of other hidden gems intricately constructed just for you. Make this Ramadan the month of perfecting your prayers; or the month of truly understanding and reflecting upon the verses you read in the Quran; make it the one you cook delicious meals to feed the hungry a few times a week; or spend it in thikr and istighfar during the late hours of the night just between you and the Most-Forgiving. However you decide to spend this Ramadan, may Allah make it one that is full of barakah and blessings, and may it be your best one yet!
Heba Subeh-Hyder is the author of the popular children's book series 'Maymunah's Musings'. You can follow her @maymunahsmusings on Instagram, and on Facebook and find her books here.
What’s the best way to trick your kids into doing something? I found that it's putting them in charge! Here are some ways you can get your kids to take charge and get excited for this upcoming Ramadan.
The Prophet (PBUH) said, “A believer to another believer is like a building whose different parts enforce one another.”
Lately, I’ve been playing with the idea of whether I should let my five year old try fasting. He turns 6 soon, and he’s expressed interest in it. But can my sweet little guy really make it all the way through a full day from sunrise until sunset not consuming a thing?
Then I got to thinking, I started fasting at 6, but the circumstances were pretty different. I am the 5th of 6 children. Growing up, I was surrounded by my fasting siblings, and I wanted to be just like them. And I was able to do it because back then, Maghreb came in a lot sooner than it does now.
To figure out my game plan, I reached out to my community of moms. I asked around to see what they did or are planning to do this Ramadan with their own kids when it came to fasting. Here are some insights I’ve collected for any moms like me who would benefit from each others experiences.
“Both my kids started fasting at around 2nd and 3rd grade. My oldest Samih (18) started fasting 1/2 days in 2nd then moved to full days in 3rd. Maghreb started much earlier when he was younger so it was a bit easier for him to go full blown in 3rd. Lillian is 11 and did 1/2 days in 2nd and 3rd because the day was so long and Magrib came in at 8:00. She moved to full days last year when she was in 4th and is excited for full days of fasting this year.
It’s sometimes hard for kids to get excited about fasting if they don’t fully understand it or feel that Ramadan spirit in their home. So first and foremost parents should definitely talk to their kids about fasting and explain exactly why we will be doing it. Also decorate your home and make it festive for your kids. It makes a huge difference when kids see how excited their parents are about fasting.
So one tip that I would recommend is to have your children involved in the Sahur and Iftar preparation. Kids in general love to help cook so doing it together during this special month makes it even more exciting and memorable for them. Both my kids help me prepare iftar on the regular. They even volunteer to take on dessert alone. Last year, my son learned how to make so many different cookie and brownie recipes all from scratch. He has gotten so good at baking because of Ramadan (no joke)!
Another tip is to have a special tray/bowl/dish designated just for them to use during Sahur. Sahur can be hard since it’s so early. This not only gets them excited but creates routine for them. They get used to waking up and eating from their special tableware.
So now this year I am working on praying and giving charity with my youngest. We have a chart going on, and everyday that she prays all her prayers she will be rewarded with money. The catch is that at the end of the week she got to decide which percentage of her earnings she would like to donate to the poor. She is really looking forward to this new activity this year.”
—Aminah, mom of 2
“All my kids started at 5. I was never a fan of half day fasting. I did full days one day on and one day off for the first week then moved to everyday, and all my kids were very receptive to that. With all that said, I made Ramadan huge in our household: bought some books and decorations and handed out treats everyday they fasted, always cooked traditional things in Ramadan so they get even more excited, woke them up for suhoor and let them eat whatever they wanted. And at the end, I always bought them a gift they have been wanting.”
—Abeer, mom of 4
“When I was a kindergartner, I looked up to my older siblings and wanted to fast like them. In order to encourage my 5 yr old, I mention how older kids that he looks up to, such as neighbors and cousins, do a really good job fasting every year.
We are spending the 2 weeks prior to Ramadan getting mentally prepared and excited about Ramadan and fasting. Whether it’s reading books, having discussions, decorating the house, the main topic in our home is Ramadan. The kids are already very excited and keep asking when Ramadan will start.
We plan on having my 5 yr old try to fast half days after school until iftar time and try to extend the fasting time on the weekends depending on how he does on weekdays. This is his first year trying, so I want him to have positive associations with Ramadan. Even if he can fast for only short periods of time, the goal is to get him involved and introduce him to fasting in order for him to practice self-control and gain love and understanding of Ramadan.”
—Manal, mom of 3
“My children are still too young to fast, but I am preparing them for the future by talking to them about why Muslims fast during Ramadan and of course leading by example. This year we dedicated a room of the house for prayer and I let my eldest participate by helping me to decorate the room for Ramadan. This really helped him get into the Ramadan spirit.”
—Nimeh, mom of 2
“One thing that worked for me last year was preparing a nutritious suhoor ahead of time, such as overnight oats, and keeping a mini fridge by my bed (I borrowed one from a family member). And I know this is not a tip but every Ramadan since becoming a mother, I have this immense guilt about not being able to do as much Ibadah (reading Quran, praying taraweeh at the masjid). Then someone helped me realize that everything a mother does to take care of her children is considered Ibadah and is rewarded subhanallah.”
—Aya, mom of 2
“I think making sure the kids keep busy and balance play with activities that don’t require too much energy (my kids loved playing taboo and hangman). I also encouraged them to find stillness in their day by joining them in a quiet activity. We all sat down and either read, worked on a puzzle, colored, or watched a doc etc.
Last Covid Ramadan was a bit challenging because the kids weren’t in school and the day seemed longer for them. I took advantage of them learning remotely and allowed them to stay up late with their cousins and then sleep in the next morning.
Fetthi fasted full days and Iliya felt discouraged because she needed to drink some water/eat a little snack during fasting hours. I reassured her that she was still getting loads of ajir and that she was training her spirit for fasting in the future. Kids are excited to grow up and be like their parents, so they look forward to joining the fasting club and I think it’s important to make it a pleasant experience for them by always being patient & joyful while fasting.
Just have fun with them. Include them in various acts of worship and let them feel like they are grown up, but also allow them to be kids. For example, during quiet time, my kids read graphic novels while I read Quran. My son is an EATER msA, and I’m always amazed at how he can fast full days. Allah makes fasting much easier for us during Ramadan, and that includes kids, subhanAllah.”
—Alaa, mom of 2
Overall, I feel pretty reassured after reading about how moms are approaching Ramadan with their kids and comforted knowing that it’s okay that it’s different for each family and child. The fact that we are thinking about these things and hopefully creating the love of our religion in our homes will more than likely benefit our children’s ability to upkeep our Islamic virtues.
May Allah SWT allow us all to experience the benefits of this Ramadan and the next. And may He bring light, joy, and righteousness into the hearts of our children, always. Ameen.
What’s the best way to trick your kids into doing something? I found that it's putting them in charge! Here are some ways you can get your kids to take charge and get excited for this upcoming Ramadan.
Believe it – Ramadan is coming right back around, alhamdulillah! This time last year, we were forced to slow down and appreciate the little things. Shared Iftars weren’t an option. Taraweeh at your local mosque was canceled. It was up to us to bring the feel of Ramadan into our homes. I almost cracked under the pressure, but let’s be honest, it was one of the better Ramadans that some of us have been through.
As a mom of two boys, 5 and 2, this past Ramadan was the first one I a) had the time and energy to decorate and plan activities, and b) with so much time at home, my effort was actually appreciated!
What’s the best way to trick your kids into doing something? I found that it's putting them in charge! Here are some ways you can get your kids to take charge and get excited for this upcoming Ramadan.
Yes, mama, we love our fancy Days of Eid décor! It’s classy; makes us feel like we really have this adult thing down pat. BUT — there is a way to add tasteful touches that represent your family without taking away from the beautiful Moroccan Mini Lanterns and burlap banners you love.
Have your kids decide which three colors remind them of Ramadan, and stick to those. Make it a reoccurring tradition just to use those chosen colors when making Ramadan decorations from here on out; or, have a different theme every year!
Have your kids go candle shopping with you and choose a scent they think brings them comfort. These can be lit post iftar or while doing some Ramadan ibadah, and would go perfectly with all your Days of Eid Moroccan Lanterns.
Our Countdown Calendar is a great way to keep the energy going all month long. In each box, you can have a short hadeeth/message and a little treat. I also sprinkled some small surprise toys in there. My sons loved the element of surprise that it brought to us every day, and I love how I can adapt this tradition to grow with them every year.
You can also use the Calendar to encourage Random Acts of Kindness. Have your kids plan different random acts of kindness that they can do daily for different people, and place them randomly in the countdown calendar. Examples could be: make blessing bags and distribute to people you see in the street, help mama with cleaning up, or they could simply make it a point to smile at everyone one day! Be creative, and remember it’s in the little things too.
This is obviously one of the most crucial categories. Make it easy for yourself to focus on what matters in Ramadan and pre-plan a menu. Type it up and print a few copies out and have the kids decorate them with your Ramadan colors and some stickers (maybe even some glitter if you’re feeling risqué). Another cute idea (with a lot less planning pressure): use a felt letter-board or dry erase board to have your kids write the Iftar of The Day!
My favorite thing to do is to remind my kids about giving/generosity. “Charity does not decrease wealth.” You can either get one clear jar for the whole family, or one for each of your kids. Get some craft supplies that go with your Ramadan decorations and let those little Muslims go at it! Explain to them that everyday they can put in as much as they’d like, and then by the end of the month you can involve them in choosing where to donate it to Insha’Allah.
Help them memorize! Sit down with your kids and search 30 different hadeeths/duaas that are easy to remember and put them in a book. Write the hadeeth/duaa and have them draw a picture that represents it. This way, each day they’re able to either memorize or become familiar with each page of a book and end up with a lovely keepsake to remember the month by.
Last, but not least — set up a designated salah/Quran reading area in your home. Have your kids help you decide where salah will be happening and figure out a cozy area to read Quran. You can set up the Ramadan books in the same area. This way, you and the kids have created a “ibadah corner” that can even be used year round.
We can’t wait to see what you do with your littles! Remember to share your pictures with us by tagging us on instagram @daysofeid, Insha’Allah a blessed and fruitful Ramadan for us all.
One of the easiest ways to elevate your home for the holidays is to use your mantle as a focal point. We put together three distinct looks for your fireplace mantle this Ramadan!
One of the easiest ways to elevate your home for the holidays is to use your fireplace mantel as a focal point. We put together three distinct looks for your fireplace mantel this Ramadan!
Simplicity through your design and decor choices goes a long way. For a sleek aesthetic, keep it to neutrals with some black accents. Pair our Burlap Banner with some natural textures like woven baskets and pampas.
Use the Door Decor as the focal point of your display by centering it on your mantel. Add dimension on either side of the Door Decor by placing candlesticks of varying heights. These black candlesticks contrast well with the all gold Moroccan Floor Lanterns.
Don’t forget to add a nice warm glow with by adding battery powered candles to all your lanterns!
For a vibrant look that’s perfect for spring, incorporate a few more colorful items into your decor. You’ll need: fun and unique vases of varying heights, dried (or faux) florals and/or greenery, hanging plants, and Days of Eid Moroccan Floor Lanterns with their colored panels in.
You might land on your desired display the first time putting it together, but it can be equally fun moving things around until it feels just right.
Here’s what to do: Place the Door Decor front and center on your mantel. Move the vases around until you’re satisfied with the different dimensions and textures. The florals can be placed anywhere, but they’re especially beautiful on or around the Door Decor. Balance the sides with anything else that brings you joy!
Yes, your kids can definitely help you design this look! Display your Days of Eid Countdown Calendar as the star of the show.
Grab a couple of your Star Lanterns, and fill them with lights for a beautiful glow that goes with our Star and Moon String Lights
Your Mini Moroccan lanterns sit on one side of the calendar. On the other side, bring it altogether with some of your kids’ favorite Ramadan books and a Quran!
We hope these ideas got you as excited for Ramadan as us! Don't forget to tag us on Instagram @DaysofEid when you try them out.
“I can’t remember when and how I learned how to pray. I don’t even know who taught me.” To which he responded, “You learned by watching.”
As I watched my two-year-old son mimicking my uncle’s prayer patterns yesterday, I turned to my husband and said, “I can’t remember when and how I learned how to pray. I don’t even know who taught me.” To which he responded, “You learned by watching.”
Just like that, I flashed back to my parents in our tiny living room praying on a frayed red prayer rug — my younger brother climbing on top of them, and my older brothers standing next to them. Sure, there had to be instructions provided at some point, but so much of what we know and do comes from exposure.
Here are some family rituals to be mindful of this Ramadan:
For many, this can be tough. Work and school hours may conflict; and still, some of us are away from our family for one reason or another. Thankfully, we have the power of technology.
Make it a priority to sit down and break your fast with your family every night it is possible. Set the table together, give everyone a role. My five-year-old gets to put out plates and silverware. My two-year-old gets to set out the napkins. My husband cleans the dishes while I prepare food and check saltiness. Do they do this without my request? No, not yet. But consistency will get us there insha’Allah.
Last Ramadan, during quarantine, we would FaceTime parents and siblings to ensure we were all awake for Suhoor. During Iftar, we FaceTime to break fast on many days. But each night, my nuclear family and I had the privilege of sitting down and eating together, alhamdulilah.
Some of us believe in strictly eating at the dinner table; I grew up this way. And true, some meals just need the coziness of communal eating. But on days when we eat pizza or spinach pies, everyone can happily sit around the coffee table watching our favorite Ramadan lecture series.
Eating together anywhere during Ramadan brings so much peace and comfort after a long day of fasting. We are able to appreciate each other's presence, and plant positive seeds in our children’s minds, and hopefully they look forward to sharing similar moments with their families someday.
Growing up watching my brothers pray with my parents, and most days joining myself, always felt so serene. Salah jama’a is one of the most healing things for me to witness and engage in. This feeling of unity, whether you are praying beside your mother or next to complete strangers, comes from engaging in something powerful that ties you to your Deen and to billions around the world. It is something so personal and universal all at once.
Fajr and Maghreb are the best Salah to prioritize with your family during Ramadan. If you can do every Salah together, even better! But prioritize these two: the beginning of the fast and the conclusion. This not only will make you feel more accountable for the remainder of your daily Salah, but will build a communal foundation through prayer for your family to rely on.
Along with prayer, Dua’a of course helps me personally get through the day. I love that I never had to try to memorize the “breaking fast” Dua’a. My parents recited it every day at iftar time, so I was raised hearing it. Then my older siblings picked it up, and began to say it too. Soon after, I was reciting it myself. It’s amazing how children absorb their surroundings! Point blank.
My favorite thing about my five-year-old going to an Islamic school is that he jumps into the car on the way home and starts to tell story of a Prophet that he learned about that day. Usually I can recall the story, but wouldn’t be able to remember the details myself.
I didn’t have the opportunity to attend a Muslim school growing up. While my parents enrolled me in Saturday school to learn Arabic, it was mostly through discussions with my family that I learned these stories. Of course as I matured and my curiosity ensued, I began to read and research them on my own, and attended lectures whenever possible. What I remember most is doing this all by myself. I wonder how much more in tune with my religion I would have been if Islamic discussions had been a part of my daily life at school or home.
My husband and I decided last Ramadan would finally be the one where we eliminated distractions and turned up the Ibadah. No entertainment series, no post iftar naps. We followed two Ramadan lectures every single day. We read Quran and discussed some Islamic tales that we never really had the chance to learn. Insha’Allah I hope to set a higher standard: I want to learn and discuss one new thing from the Quran daily. This can take 5 minutes. Instead of bedtime stories with our boys, we can discuss different stories from the Quran.
So this Ramadan, make a more concerted effort to spend more time with your family. More meals shared, Salah prayed together, and simple check-ins will fill your cup as well as theirs insha’Allah!
Making sure your little ones feel involved and engaged all 30 days of Ramadan is a hard task. I find that books are a great tool for doing just that.
Making sure your little ones feel involved and engaged all 30 days of Ramadan is a hard task. I find that books are a great tool for doing just that.
My five year old is just starting to read, and there’s a book or two in here I’d love to have him try to read independently, with my guidance of course. But he also loves to sit down for story time with Mama. Here are some books that work well for Pre-K/KG, but older kids can enjoy as well!
This book is interactive and tells the story of Prophet Suleiman through images and reusable vinyl stickers. Pretty fun, actually. The font is large and the images are fun and memorable since the kids get to put the stickers on to complete the story!
It tells the overarching story in a simple way for a 4-5 year old to grasp.
This book tells the story of the Prophets with a question on each page which prompts kids to lift the flaps that correspond. Each page tells the story in two sentences and is a great introduction to the Prophets!
This book is written in both English and Arabic. I like these kinds of books because they remind me to use Arabic with my kids! Throughout this book, we follow a little boy excited about Ramadan beginning the following day and introducing the special things about Ramadan, like how the Quran was revealed during Ramadan, and how a day in Ramadan is spent.
And of course, the excitement for Eid-al-Fitr at the end. It’s a very simple, straight to the point book, that has all the right details.
In this book, Ilyas sights the moon at the end of the month, and tells Duck its Eid! Duck runs out to get decorations and each time he brings back the wrong holiday’s decor. I don’t think Duck knows about Days of Eid. Ilyas comes up with a great idea to take Duck to the Masjid to teach him how we celebrate Eid.
I wish I had this book growing up. It details Laylatul-Qadr, how powerful it is to make Dua’a, and how the Quran was revealed on this night. Laila has so many questions about The Most Powerful Night and her mom explains it to her so eloquently. This is a beautiful introduction to the importance of the last ten nights of Ramadan.
This is the first Ramadan book I’ve read for kids that specifically describes why we fast in a brief and fun way for kids to understand. Remember, it’s not just to empathize with the poor. The book is engaging, has some rhyming, and who doesn’t love a talking duck that keeps Ilyas on the righteous path? There’s also a “Mister Mean” depicted who tries to encourage negativity in Ramadan! But, no worries, Ilyas and Duck run him away with good deeds!
If you don’t already have this book, definitely get it. One of my favorites to read, even as an adult. Mostly because I love George and his silly antics. This book shows George and Kareem preparing for Ramadan. George helps Kareem get through the day of fasting through distractions, and displays some awesome sharing and volunteering.
George accidentally tries to give out peoples’ shoes at the mosque as a gift, and the Imam is like, you know what, we should have a clothes drive. Definitely a relatable book, except I don’t have an endearing monkey friend.
Oh man, this book made me emotional. It’s about a girl who moved to the States from Abu Dhabi and was fasting for the first time while attending public school. She didn’t have any Muslim friends and would be the only one fasting. Worried that her teacher and classmates wouldn’t understand what Ramadan was, she was too shy to give the note her mom wrote for her to explain why she would not be bringing lunch to school this month. Finally Laila reached out to the librarian who reassured her and looped her teacher in.
The message of support and kindness as well as longing for acceptance, is all too real in the modern world of Muslims who have to constantly explain who they are. Beautifully written!
This book is bursting at the seams with inclusivity. On each page, we travel to a different corner of the world where families show the types of food they break their fasts with. It’s colorful and very fun to read, but I don’t recommend reading until after you’ve broken your fast. The cartoon food looks delicious.
We know our kids love to make their own choices, and this book puts a lot of choosing power in their hands. Throughout the story, the reader decides what path Isa’a should take and that directs them to flip to the corresponding pages. This impacts the outcome of the story entirely!
I enjoyed reading this and I’m sure it would be a great read for kids who are just about to start fasting themselves.
There are so many other books out there that I’m sure we overlooked. Let us know which books we should include next year! Also check out our blogpost about board books for your younger readers. May these books fill your children with wonder and excitement in the blessed month of Ramadan.
Making sure your little ones feel involved and engaged all 30 days of Ramadan is a hard task. I find that books are a great tool for doing just that.
So, here are some board books about Ramadan and Quran that can withstand the toddler years!
Growing up as first generation Muslims in the states, we didn’t have any representation in books. And honestly, even if there were books about Ramadan, Eid, or even Muslims that were accessible, my parents were working hard to keep their six kids fed, clothed, and safe in a world entirely new to them.
Now that I’m a mom and find that there are so many other things competing for my kids’ attention, I gotta step it up a notch. Thankfully, there are loads of books for younger kids about Ramadan these days.
I know, they will chew the pages, and wipe their yogurt-covered hands on any book they touch. So, here are some board books about Ramadan and Quran that can withstand the toddler years:
In this brightly illustrated book, each letter of the alphabet is listed on a page portraying one aspect of Ramadan with fun and engaging pictures. For example, “D is for Dates,” and “G is for generous,” but my favorite of all is the “I is for Iftar,” with something that looks like ice cream on the table. Don’t @ me, but I may have ice cream for Iftar one night.
Overall, really cute and to the point. My two year old might sit long enough for three pages a night. We’ll see.
This one isn’t Ramadan centric, but considering the importance of the Quran during Ramadan, introducing it at their age is a win for me. This board book is great because it has the name of each animal listed in English, Arabic, and even transliterated in English for those who do not read Arabic.
At the bottom of each page, there's a little rhyme about what that animal does in its natural habitat. For instance, one of the animals listed is a “Quail,” also called a “Salwa” in Arabic, which I had never heard of! I’d recommend this book for three year olds!
This rhyming board book is an introductory message about the belief and love of Allah SWT through simple physical things such as their smelly feet and runny noses, to their feelings and their safety.
My kids loved the sing-song nature of the words as well as reinforcement that Allah will always be there no matter how we are feeling.
If your little ones are more advanced, check out our other blogpost about Ramadan books for ages 4 and up. May these books fill your children with wonder and excitement in the blessed month of Ramadan.
All of us have completely different schedules, so a set plan of habits to incorporate before Ramadan might not be able to set you all up for success. Think about the small things you can do and then you can make a plan to incorporate these things moving forward.
As Muslims, we often take for granted the blessing bestowed upon us having been chosen/guided to Islam. How often have you completely zoned out while driving? You could be completely spaced out, or thinking about something you need to do, and all of a sudden you snap back into reality. You feel a pang of anxiousness before you remember, wait I know how to do this, I just went on autopilot.
Unfortunately, this happens a lot in our day-to-day lives as Muslims: we know our overarching goal is to be good humans, follow our religion, and hopefully end up in Jannah in the afterlife. But we end up going through the motions, not present in our Salahs, in our Duas. Oftentimes we know what we need to be done to change this.
All of us have completely different schedules, so a set plan of habits to incorporate before Ramadan might not be able to set you all up for success. Think about the small things you can do and then you can make a plan to incorporate these things moving forward.
The first step you need to take right now so that you can incorporate healthy, within-reach positive changes into your life before Ramadan is to make the intention, the pure unwavering intention to do it. To be more aware, to be more focused, and to be more present in the things that bring peace.
Every morning, on my way to work with my two little guys, we read the same morning Duaa together. This makes me feel as though I’ve done my job asking for protection for myself and my entire family at the start of my day.
A way to incorporate this into your routine is to find a morning Duaa you love, add a personal touch to it, print it out, and pin it above your coffee maker.
How often are you caught between meetings, classes, TV shows and you pick up your phone to scroll through? I recently read something about how the angels in Jannah are waiting for you to make Thikir so they can continue building your castle. Make it a habit to stop and make Thikir for a minute between tasks, in lieu of picking up your phone . The Barakah comes from being conscious of how we are spending our time and ensuring we incorporate the little positive remembrances of Allah SWT.
I have to admit, this is one of the hardest for me to do. My plan insha’Allah with sunnah prayers is to make sure I do one sunnah Salah a day. I’ll do this for one week and stack another sunnah Salah on the next week, and so on. By the time Ramadan comes around, I should be in the habit of praying my Sunnahs insha’Allah.
Nowadays with Fajr coming in at a reasonable hour, this should be an easy habit to fit in. It’s going to be hard, but set those alarms, set your phone away from your bedside so that you have to get up to turn off the alarm. And if you’re still finding it hard to get up, recite in your head or out loud “la ilah illa Allah, Muhammad Rasool Allah.” Making Thikir will awaken your spirit and push you forward. You got this!.
Forgiveness is difficult for some, and sometimes it’s not about forgiving others, but rather yourself. In my family, the culture was to put others above yourself, above your own needs. We are constantly reminded to forgive others. But there is not much emphasis on forgiveness of ourselves. This can be extremely detrimental to your own growth. With everything going on in the world, we must give ourselves some grace and treat ourselves with just as much kindness as we are offering others. So be kind to yourself and forgive yourself so you can allow yourself to grow.
Unfollow the pages that you find make you lose your focus, and follow some Islamic pages that share Duaas, feel good stories, and general Thikir reminders. if you want to bring Barakah back (oh I like that: BBB) into your days, get rid of pages that you feel don’t benefit you, trust me. Instead, do a deep dive on accounts that have consistent and relatable posts.
Some good pages you should check out: @muslimatoday, @islamreflections, @islamic.matters, @roadtojannah1, @path2paradise, @islamic_teachings, @quransayings, and @islamify
We all have off days. We miss a Salah, it becomes two, and then before you know it you only caught prayer once or twice that day. And then that sense of failure creeps in, and we just don’t pray at all the next day. And then it could become a week. A month. Do not give in to that feeling.
You missed a few Salahs. That’s okay, get up now and prayer what just came in. You’ll do better next time. Do not let the little mistakes become overwhelming pockets of failure that your mind can’t fill. Do not stop altogether. You cannot instill these habits overnight. “Walk towards Allah, and Allah will run towards you.”
Today, I wanted to talk to you about the vision and history behind some of our most iconic Days of Eid products, our Moroccan lanterns.
Light itself is a deeply symbolic concept in Islam. Light is deeply connected to spirituality as a beacon to all those seeking God.
In Surah Al-Nur (literally, the chapter of Light), Allah SWT says:
"Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The example of His light is like a niche with in which is a lamp, The lamp is within glass, the glass as if it were a pearly [white] star, Lit from [the oil of] a blessed olive tree, Neither of the east nor of the west, Whose oil would almost glow even if untouched by fire. Light upon light. Allah guides to His light whom He wills. And Allah presents examples for the people, and Allah is Knowing of all things.”
[24:35]
Which brings us to the month of Ramadan, in which many of us become nocturnal to accommodate for our evening iftars, late-night worship and pre-sunrise suhoors. Ramadan lanterns come in a variety of shapes and size but it is believed that their origin is rooted in the Egyptian “fanoos.” The story goes that the Fatimid Caliph Al-Muizz was greeted by Egyptian subjects holding lanterns to celebrate his arrival at Cairo during the holy month of Ramadan.
Today, lanterns have turned into a symbol of Ramadan. At Days of Eid, we wanted to provide lantern options that are made for Muslims, by Muslims with authentic details. Our Moroccan Floor Lanterns contain the geometric designs of Islamic art. More specifically: the intricate tilework of Morocco’s historic mosques, palaces, and homes.
Photo by Isak Gundrosen on Unsplash
These places contain a rich history that is a part of who we are today as an Ummah. It is important to us that our Moroccan Floor Lanterns connect us to that past authentically, unlike the generic copies you might find that are made without an understanding of the significance.
We set out to make sure we could set our Moroccan Floor Lanterns apart from other generic versions, making sure the geometric pattern was as intricate as possible. In order to accomplish this, all our Moroccan lanterns, including our new Mini Moroccan Lanterns and our Moroccan Lantern String Lights, have to be cut-out by hand and hand-painted. Our price point reflects the hard work and detail that goes into this process. We then moved on to making sure that if they were a higher price point, then they were as versatile as possible. The jewel-toned panels that our Moroccan Floor Lanterns come with are removable. So whether you want to go with a minimal gold look or a colorful purple and green and blue one, you have the option to change it up.
Our goal has always been to create a high end Islamic atmosphere and with child safe products, so the panels of our Moroccan Floor Lanterns are made of acrylic instead of glass. That way you don’t run the risk of the glass cracking/breaking if your little ones knock them over. We also treated them so that they are safe to use outdoors and will not rust.
A Tip: These lanterns can’t be used with real candles. We recommend these candles from Target instead. They’re safe and pop in easily!
After the success of our original Moroccan Floor Lantern set, we found that people really wanted lanterns that would help them elevate their dining experiences, making gatherings extra special and creating that warm and cozy Iftar atmosphere. When COVID-19 hit, this became even more important, with small intimate gatherings becoming the only safe way to spend time with loved ones. Not being able to meet with family as often as we usually do means every family dinner is special, and we found that our community was looking for a way to have their tablescapes reflect that.
The Mini Moroccan Lanterns were specifically created to address this need. Our solution was making something that could easily fit on a table during both iftar/suhoor meal times or general dining, year-round. We went as small as our production would allow without compromising the original intricate pattern we used in our Moroccan Floor Lanterns. Their size allows them to be easily incorporated into other settings like work areas, and coffee tables, uplifting us as we go about our day to day.
Days of Eid products are never just products. They speak to a larger vision for the Muslim community. Every lantern, every Ramadan banner, every tray is a step closer to reclaiming our Muslim tradition and creating an atmosphere at home that is high-quality, authentic, and spiritually grounding.
Check out @daysofeid on IG for more behind the scenes and all things Muslim home!
The year ending does not necessarily mean that everything is behind us. But it gives us an opportunity to reflect on the last 12 months.
Alhamdulillah, we made it folks. 2020 is officially over!? I can’t decide if it feels like it passed in the blink of an eye or inched along. I think we can all agree, however, that this year has been so unique and turbulent that it provided us with so much to reflect on. It challenged each and every one of us in unimaginable ways and brought the whole world together like we’ve never seen before.
The year ending does not necessarily mean that everything is behind us. But it gives us an opportunity to reflect on the last 12 months.
Here are the 5 main lessons I will be taking away:
Hanging out with family without a looming feeling of worry. Going on a coffee date with a friend. Praying at the masjid, shoulder to shoulder. Exchanging a smile with a stranger. As many of us spent this year with less people around as we would prefer, I think it’s safe to say that the blessing and power of people is something to seriously cherish.
Whether it was a virtual game night with your best friends or a socially-distanced picnic with relatives, this year challenged us to find alternatives and appreciate them fully.
If you feel like you’ve been setback in your goals this year, you’re not alone. A complete shift in the way day-to-day life is lived is bound to make its impact! For some of us this setback came in the form of losing a job and financial difficulty. For some it was experiencing student life in a way different than what they were traditionally looking forward to. For some it was a general lack of inspiration and momentum towards one’s hopes and dreams. Again, you are not alone. But in these setbacks is a valuable lesson: it’s okay to slow down. Dips and lows in our educational, financial, and professional life are absolutely normal, because we are not machines.
It’s ok if you didn’t fly through your to-do list week to week or if you had to postpone some ambitions. It’s okay if you felt like you slept more and weren’t as energized as usual.
You deserve rest and every journey takes one step at a time.
The burn out has been real this year and many of the outlets we use to recharge are no longer available in the same way. This year teaches us that in difficult times, community is not only important, but necessary. Always look for the good and genuine people in your life and know that just as you will be there when they need you, they can be there for you. Feeling lonely? Hit up a friend! Need respite from e-learning day in and day out? Don’t be shy to ask your sister if she could watch the kids for a few hours. We need each other. Point blank.
The difficult moments of this year offered us great opportunities to reconnect with people, with ourselves, and with our Lord. It may have been unconventional in this “new normal,” we’ve adapted to, but recognize all the beautiful outcomes that have come out of adversity. Whatever that outcome is for you, cherish it and know that everything unfolded exactly as it should have and you did your very best.
None of us can anticipate what 2021 will bring. For many, this year brought about an abundance of blessings. For others, it was full of difficulty. For most of us, it was both. As we look ahead into this new year, we recognize that the most valuable thing we have is this very moment. Though life may not look how we want it to right now, there is so much available to us right now that is more than sufficient. While it is important to plan for the future, put in the work, and dream big, remember that God’s plan will always prevail. As Allah SWT says “...and whoever relies upon Allah - then He is sufficient for him…” [65:3]
The possibilities of bedtime wind-down drinks are endless! There’s hot cocoa, tea, coffee (if you wanna risk that blast of caffeine, that is), or even just warm milk. Given the fact that we’re officially in mid-December now, I’ve been really building a craving for the classic wintery warm drink: sahleb.
I go out of my way to prioritize those few minutes on the curled on the couch with a fuzzy blanket, some cookies, and a warm drink-- even when I’m sleepy and would rather just collapse into bed. Why? Well because that late night sip is what helps me wind down before bed, reflect on the day, and take a moment for myself. It’s a much-needed pause for all working moms.
Having a drink at the end of a long day is also really nostalgic to me. It brings to mind those late night shay (mint tea) sessions of our parents, and those sesame biscuits we used to dip in the hot tea. Truly, the comfort food of first-generation kids everywhere.
The possibilities of bedtime wind-down drinks are endless! There’s hot cocoa, tea, coffee (if you wanna risk that blast of caffeine, that is), or even just warm milk. Given the fact that we’re officially in mid-December now, I’ve been really building a craving for the classic wintery warm drink: sahleb.
Sahleb, or sahlep, is a traditional Winter drink in the Levant area. It was especially popular in the Ottoman Empire and has existed far before coffee and tea became popularized. Sahlep is traditionally made by thickening milk with a flour derived from orchids. Today, any flour or starch can be used and you can often find pre-prepped instant sahleb packets at arab grocery stores.
I’m going to be showing you how to make it from scratch. This is the kind of recipe I've memorized just from seeing it made so many times throughout my childhood so making it myself is a sort of sentimental experience.
Making it from scratch has also allowed me to customize ingredients. For example, I swapped out the usual whole milk for non-dairy oat milk instead!
While making this sahleb is usually a relaxing process, I made mine in my unfinished new kitchen with construction happening all around me. I’ll look back at this fondly once my home renovation is complete, right?
You might also notice a new color way of our Acrylic Trays, keep an eye out for its release with our 2021 collection!
Ingredients:
Notes:
*If you want the milk thicker or lighter, adjust starch measurements accordingly.
**If the milk is unsweetened, add a little bit of sugar with the starch.
1. Mix oat milk and starch in a pot while the milk is still cold. *
2. Set the stove to medium-high. Keep stirring to avoid it sticking to the pot.
3. Once you begin to see the mixture bubble slightly, add a few drops of vanilla extract and rose water. You can also add sugar at this point if you are using unsweetened milk.**
4. When the milk has boiled, turn off heat. The milk should be a bit thick at this point which means it is ready.
5. To make this drink extra delicious, I dipped the edges of the cup in honey, coconut and crushed pistachio. I then topped the drink with pistachio, coconut, dried rose petals and cinnamon. You can customize these toppings as you like, but the cinnamon is essential!
To make your own sahleb, USE the recipe ABOVE and check out the video on @daysofeid. DoN'T forget to tag us and share how it turned out!
Gratitude isn’t just the act of giving thanks, though. It’s a lens through which we can see the world! And what’s great about it is the fact that it’s the gift that keeps on giving. Here are 4 benefits to practicing gratitude daily:
While we are encouraged to express gratitude around thanksgiving, our faith encourages it year round. The truth is, gratitude is a lifestyle, not an occasion. In the Islamic tradition gratitude is one of the key virtues highlighted in not only our religious holidays, but in our daily rituals and acts of worship as well. The second verse we recite (after “In the Name of Allah—the Most Compassionate, Most Merciful”) in every raka’ of our prayers is “All praise is for Allah—Lord of all worlds.” [1:2] This illustrates just how integral praising God and, by extension, gratitude, is to who we are as Muslims.
Gratitude isn’t just the act of giving thanks, though. It’s a lens through which we can see the world! And what’s great about it is the fact that it’s the gift that keeps on giving. Here are 4 benefits to practicing gratitude daily:
When we recognize our blessings and express gratitude for them, we reaffirm God’s characteristics. For example: the more you soak in the artistry of a flower, the more you understand God’s name “Al-Musawwir” or “The Fashioner, The Shaper.” Such is the generous nature of God. He gives and He gives and if we tried counting all the blessings He has bestowed, we would never stop.
Through gratitude, we receive rewards in the afterlife and blessings in our own and we grow more cognizant of the hidden and apparent beauty in our lives. In fact, gratitude is literally proven to rewire our brains to view the cup as half full and actively look for more things to be grateful for. God makes the multi-fold benefits of gratitude in the Quran. In Surah Ibrahim, verse 7, He says: “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor].” So go ahead: be grateful! You have everything to gain by doing so!
The more grateful we are, the more prepared we are when faced with difficulty. Here’s a metaphor to help you understand this: Imagine you have a bucket and you’re constantly filling that bucket with blessings. Every time you recognize a blessing, you put it in your gratitude bucket. Eventually, your bucket becomes full to the brim (and your heart also overflowing) with gratitude for so many blessings. So when calamity strikes or you face a loss or are tested with something… even if a blessing is seemingly being taken away, your bucket is still full.
Even in difficult times, you can fall back on gratitude. Because so long as you are alive, you have much to thank God for.
When we recognize our blessings and are grateful for them, over time, it creates an attitude of contentment. And when gratitude and contentment are present, we feel inspired to use what God gave us for the greater good. For example, if you recognize a blessing you have, one way to express gratitude for it is to use it for good. How? Well, if you are good at painting: auction off a few art pieces for charity! If you are blessed with financial security, commit to donating just $10 every month! If you recognize the magnificence of nature and want to show your thanks for it, take a loved one on a healing nature walk.
No matter who we are and what we haven every single one of us can find much to be grateful for. Whether it’s a smile exchanged with a stranger, a roof over our heads, or simply the air we breath, God has given us abundantly.
In this month of November and beyond, I challenge you to take frequent pauses to be grateful for the things that bring you joy, peace, and love.
Why not start now: what are you grateful for today? Let us know! Tag us @daysofeid
This year, Friendsgiving might look different. but if you can find a safe way to socially distance and celebrate, or even just decorate to keep your spirits high, we have some ideas you can incorporate!
As I grow older, I realize more and more the value of friendship. That’s why, whenever November comes around, I not only start planning for our Thanksgiving dinner plans with family, but my Friendsgiving plans too. I’m not sure where and how Friendsgiving came about, but it’s one of those all-around wholesome traditions that give me the perfect excuse to celebrate and appreciate my friends and share some delicious food.
This year, Friendsgiving might look different. But if you can find a safe way to socially distance and celebrate, or even just decorate to keep your spirits high, we have some ideas you can incorporate!
Dried florals are a gorgeous way to bring nature inside while staying in season. The choices are endless: Pampas grass, lagurus, dried baby's breath, dried palms. You can put these in vases or just lay them out across the table as a table runner. You can upgrade the look and do something more creative! We love the idea of hanging dried florals upside down over the table to give your decor an ethereal floating feel.
Make the look more cohesive by adding dried florals to your door too. You can do this by using wire, string or tape to arrange them along the bottom of the Days of Eid Door Decor.
We all know minimal decor has been a popular look for a while now. I love it because it’s low maintenance. Meaning, you can use the basic white serving ware in your cabinet and it still looks right out of a magazine. Ceramic, specifically, is a great material to look for when buying decorative pieces because it has a raw empty-canvas look to it.
Or go for the on-trend amber vase look, bringing in warm tones that are perfect for fall.
Soft light isn’t just a decorative addition, it sets the entire mood. As the days get shorter and nights get longer, soft lights are a beautiful ambience for evening dinners. We especially love candlesticks (mix & match height), lanterns, and string lights laid out down the table.
To go along with the minimal, amber-toned theme, we recommend using our moroccan floor lanterns for the perfect bronze-gold accent along a table-runner.
I love texture. It’s such a bold way to make a space more interesting. And a table runner serves just that purpose. I mean, why have your centerpiece set on a plain wooden table when you can frame it with color and lushness? If you want the expensive look on a budget, buy a yard of velvet fabric in the color of your choice from a local fabric store! To maintain that natural, minimal look, an off-white linen fabric would be perfect. Sage green is an on trend and versatile color choice for either look.
Balance out neutral tones and with a pop of color. With subtle blues and greens, these plates are the perfect compliment to traditional fall oranges and browns. Or go for bright yellows and rich greens for the eye to focus in your centerpieces or place cards.
This one is less of a decor idea for the eyes and more-so one for the heart. Set out a gratitude jar or board for your friends to fill up. Have your friends write and add things they’re grateful for to it throughout the night and at the end read them all out loud. As God says in the Quran, “If you are grateful, I will certainly give you more…” [14:7]
Tag us in your Friendsgiving setup @DaysofEid #DaysofEidStyle
Whew, what a journey this has been! I never anticipated remodeling a home to be this involved. I mean, I never realized there were so many tile choices and almost identical shades of white. WHITE! If you have been following me on Instagram, you have probably seen these design dilemmas unfold. From our backyard deck falling apart, to our white walls coming out looking purple, remodeling our family home has been more than I imagined it would be. Has it been frustrating? Absolutely. But boy, am I immensely grateful for it all. Alhamdulillah! I'm so grateful to have the opportunity to even buy a home, let alone redesign it to my liking. I know this is a huge blessing and want to use it to show other Muslims/moms how they can create a home that celebrates their identity and raise proud Muslim children.
Much of the inspiration behind designing my home is Days of Eid. Creating Days of Eid products is labor of love— the whole business was born out of a desire to celebrate Muslim holidays with the same luxury options and festive enthusiasm available to other faiths. Remodeling a home is interwoven with this concept: finding design solutions that Muslims can relate to and benefit from. This home remodel has been a dream of mine for so long because it means creating a home in which I can embrace the Days of Eid style and philosophy.
The vision? A modern, Muslim home (with all the elements of luxury and quality I infuse into Days of Eid products) that still feels warm, cozy, and welcoming. Simple, clean & minimal. A canvas with which I can do anything I want. It is important for me to keep it fairly simple so that I can change the decor with the seasons and incorporate Islamic art inspired pieces that remind me and my family where we come from.
In many ways, I approached designing my home the same way I approach designing a Days of Eid product: pulling modern design trends and mixing them with Islamic Art elements. I intentionally designed the home to be family & faith centered. With two boys, I specifically selected materials that are very durable and simple while designing-- vinyl flooring, quartz countertops made sure the spaces that our family would use together would take up most of the floor-plan, an expansive family room, a loft for entertaining, a kitchen where we can all cook together.
It is so difficult to find products that look authentically Islamic art inspired, and not a stereotyped version of what someone thinks that would look like. I searched and searched for lamp fixtures and hardware that are reminiscent of the architecture of the Muslim world, but there isn't much to choose from. This process has rejuvenated my mission to fill this niche, and tell deeply rooted story of Islam and design with the voice of someone who is Muslim. Muslims deserve accessible home decor pieces that tell their story.
Designing a home was really interesting in that it allowed me to deeply consider exactly what was important to me— and what wasn't.
I knew from the get go that i did not want the infamous “untouchable” Arab living room. You know, the room with invisible yellow caution tape around it that only the most elite of guests stepped a (shoe-less!) foot in maybe twice or three times a year. I wanted to utilize all the space I had and give each corner of our home a meaningful purpose. So I chose to use the formal living room as a prayer room instead. This will be a space where my family and I can worship and reflect together. I hope that when family, friends, neighbors walk in, they are reminded of God and of our beautiful faith.
Hosting large family parties and celebrations for the children is both something that i enjoy and that is very important. There’s nothing like the loud exchanges over dinner, family legends told by the elders, and ceaseless laughter at jokes only our family would find funny. I made sure to keep sitting and eating areas spacious and open so these happy voices can echo throughout the house and fill as much space as they can.
We previously lived in a townhouse so hosting people was difficult due to lack of space, and I am so looking forward to being able to show people my hospitality more now.
This home rehab was the kind of hard work that pushes you to deeply reflect and come out brimming with gratitude. It has been an absolutely heartwarming journey for my family and I (minus a dash of sleepless nights and tears here and there). I’m so excited to bring you along my journey, and I pray that your sharing in this journey with me will inspire you to pour lots of love into your living space as well.
So without further ado, roll up your creativity sleeves, get out your popcorn, and check out our Home Rehab series on our instagram @daysofeid.
Rabi’ Al-Awwal is officially upon us! This is the month in which the blessed Prophet PBUH was born and the perfect time for us to learn more about him. Islam is more than a religion. It’s a way of life. Through the life of the Prophet PBUH, we are guided to good values, character, and actions.
As the Prophet PBUH said: “God has sent me to perfect good manners and to do good deeds."
We often hear of the glamorous, epic stories of the Prophet-- the miracles, the battles, the migrations. But how often do we remember him in the little things? How did he act at home? What was his daily schedule like? How did he treat his closest family and friends? Here at Days of Eid, we believe in emulating the good character of Prophet Muhammad PBUH and finding ways to model his good character in our homes and amongst our families. We are sharing 5 characteristics of the Prophet that can inspire how we act in our homes, with our families, in our communities, and with the environment.
We’ve all heard the hadith: “Smiling in the face of your brother (another) is an act of charity.” Well, the Prophet practiced what he preached and greeted everyone with a friendly disposition. Abdullaah ibn Haarith said, “I never came across a person who smiled as much as Prophet Muhammad.
Aish Ra said about the Prophet, “he used to repair his own shoes, sew his clothes and carry out all such household chores done without complaint or want for more.” For a man busy with leading an entire new generation of Muslims in a world rife with conflict, the Prophet PBUH made it clear that this did not excuse negligence at home. Not only does this hadith illustrate his level of service to his family and his self-sufficiency… it also illustrates how simply he lived.
Ana ibn Malik said: “I never saw anyone who was more compassionate towards children than Allah’s Messenger (peace and blessings be upon him). His son Ibrahim was in the care of a wet nurse in the hills around Madinah. He would go there, and we would go with him, and he would enter the house, pick up his son and kiss him, then come back.”
This mercy and thoughtfulness extended even to the time of prayer as the Prophet PBUH said: “The Prophet said, “(It happens that) I start the prayer intending to prolong it, but on hearing the cries of a child, I shorten the prayer because I know that the cries of the child will incite its mother’s passions.”
Muhammad is reported to have reprimanded some men who were sitting idly on their camels in a marketplace, saying "either ride them or leave them alone.” This indicates that we should not place burdens on animals and treat them with mercy. Touchingly, the Prophet PBUH loved animals so much that he had a cat that would frequently visit him. He named this cat Muezza meaning ‘honored’ or ‘beloved.’
The Prophet PBUH was full of gentleness and affection for the Earth and its creatures. He once said: “No Muslim who plants a tree or sows seeds, and then a bird, or a person or an animal eats from it, except that this is regarded as charity.” The Prophet PBUH was way ahead of the conservation curve in this regard and was never wasteful. After he would eat he would ensure his plate was completely empty so that no food is thrown away. Even when resources were plenty, he advocated against being excessive with resources. It is narrated that once, the Prophet PBUH passed by Sa`d ibn Abi Waqas (r.a) while he was performing wudu’. The Prophet (saw) asked Sa`d: “What is this wastage?” Sa`d replied: “Is there wastage in wudu also?” The Prophet said, “Yes, even if you are at a flowing river.”
So, tell us! Which story hit home most for you? And which virtue would you like to focus on cultivating this month? Tag us @daysofeid and let us know.
This can be done outside (a bonfire pit in the backyard) or inside (fireplace). Grab all the pillows around the house and set up a comfy lounging area. Make the marshmallow roasting and s’more assembling even more aesthetic by plating it on the Days of Eid Moon and Star Tray. This is a perfect nighttime activity with family or even for a small girls nights hangout at home. And if you don’t want the night to end, put on a movie to kick back and watch by the fire. My favorite series for the warmer seasons are Harry Potter and Gilmore Girls.
This is a great activity with family or friends. Split people into groups and assign a Fall recipe they each have to recreate. For a challenge, I recommend this Sticky Apple Upside Down Cake from @fufuinthekitchen. If you will be having younger kids participating and don’t want to do anything involving heat, these vegan no-bake Date Bars are perfect!
TIP: Have kids who can’t seem to do anything without arguing? Put them in a group. If they’re competitive, they’ll have no choice but to get along!
As Days of Eid has grown, I’ve grown with it and learned more and more about the Muslim community’s needs. Investing so much time and energy in building these products for families all over the world has pushed me to constantly revisit why establishments like Days of Eid are so important. Over the years, Days of Eid has become more than just a business, and come it has truly come into its own. This new identity naturally let to the formation of a new logo.
The logo is sleek and its gold color is meant to exude a sense of luxury. Why? Because Muslims also deserve a luxury brand and luxury products to beautify our homes with. Growing up, around Christmas time, we were surrounded by the most gorgeous glittery decor of every color and deep down, I wished we celebrated Eid with the same enthusiasm. Now that I'm a mother and in charge of creating a holiday atmosphere for my kids, I understand that the beauty of our celebrations are in the little things: baking for neighbors, recipes for cookies passed down generations, donating to a cause, and moments with family. While these intimate traditions are valuable, I still remember constantly, the saying of the Prophet PBUH: “God is beautiful and He loves beauty.” (Sahih Muslim) Because of this, the Muslim community is so good at elevating our homes. We needed our own elevated design brand to speak to our unique needs and rich history of Islamic art and design.
Around the holidays and year-round, our homes are places where we can beautifully express and embody our most important values. Whether it’s offering guests dessert in a gorgeous tray that speaks to our Islamic culture and heritage or decorating our doors with greetings from the sunnah, Days of Eid is an opportunity to make every detail meaningful.
Our logo features gold textured elements.
These textures are similar to the texture of our Door Decor.
You shouldn’t have to compromise on what matters to you. Days of Eid values integrating traditional elements into our products, thereby reclaiming that as our own, in our homes.
Our logo features a lantern and olive branches, two very significant pieces in our Islamic tradition.
God says in the holy Quran, “I swear by the Fig and the Olive,“ [95:1]
The olive branch is a symbol of peace and appears throughout our culture.
And the lantern. Oh, the lantern! These days, you can probably find a ‘Moroccan lantern’ at your local Homegoods. But this symbol has deep roots in our tradition. Ramadan is a month in which the night is a sacred and valuable time. It is after sun-down that we break our fasts, make our most sincere prayers, and spend time with loved ones. Historically originated in Egypt, the lantern is symbolic of our prostrations made in the depths of night, when only God can bear witness to them. Elements like the lantern have long been appropriated. It is time for us to reclaim them as our own and display them in our homes as parts of our heritage.
Our Door Decor has a beautiful olive branch detail on it.
Our collection features many types of lights and lanterns, including these Moroccan Floor Lanterns.
As you grow and change, and our brand grows with you. Together we impact what Muslim identities in America look like. This logo is representative of what we are accomplishing together.
Thank you all for your continued support and here’s to this journey together!